so many classification..for what?

A friend of mine believes that gay, straight or bi..all of these are simply ridiculous and so back-dated. According to him, we are living in the post-gay world where anything is possible between two people..one just need to look for(?) the right hit on right time.

Personally, I consider myself as a "sexual'' ( not homo/bi-sexual) "testosterone driven male"( these tags have been borrowed from a very dearest friend of mine). He is a journo and writer and has influenced my personality to many extent as I met him during a crucial period of my growing up. However, I think, I can have it with any girl but I prefer men. And ofcourse, that really does not mean I am being politically correct and leaving some options for me to be a bi in near future. Because, I have have been changed a lot growing up and that would definitely continue in the coming years. Who knows, I might become more interested in to girls. Would that be malicious? Well, another friend of mine never feels it for a girl and whenever he tried it with them, he experienced a big turn off. I think, since I have not yet tried it with a girl, I might face the same problem. That is why I always say, in this world, nothing is absolute. Everything is relative and subjected to changes.

I have seen people using words like true bottom or true top. I don't know why they do so. Does adding the word ''true'' really help to identify or classify someone? Once a guy told me that he is ''pure top'' because he never even takes the dick in his mouth, let alone up his ass. He was proud that he only gives, whether in mouth or in cunt. On the other hand, I know some people who always likes to take it whether it fits or not, whether they like the person or not, they just like to take. They think taking is the only option left for them to get some pleasure. Their so called ''top'' counterpart does not even fancy giving them a hand-job and they are happy this way. They feel like servers, true servers.

There is another like versatile. In Dhaka, many bottoms have become versatile in recent times. I am also one of them. It is fine because a new horizon has been opened before us. But some people do likes to hide this because they think it is shameful to take someone's tool up your chute. I don't understand why they think so. Why do people always need to give rise to so many complications in everything? I have seen macho men who likes to take it and of course. none of them were sissy. And also I have seen sissy people who likes to give only. So, tagging girlish boys, cross-dressers or even worst kind as ''true bottom'' would be a partial view on the matter.That day, i was making fun with a friend of mine with the famous bangla link refilling system-i-top-up. I told him that the word seems very sexist to me as if someone who boasts about both being top and being on someone. He laughed and said, then there should be something like i-bottom-down. Thus a number of subcategories can be made and that would be done for nothing.

Life is simple and one must make it happy with every possible way available. However, I am winding up. catch you guys later.